What in the holy hell is happening?!

What in the holy hell is happening?!

Let me get this straight. Trump and his republicans dont want abortions. They pass an executive order basically making it almost impossible to get an abortion.
But wait! They also want to defund Planned Parenthood who provides contraceptives, educates on safe sex, helps will family planning (whether that involves having a family, adoption or abortion).

Then they also want to get rid of the ACA which would mean contraceptives for women would no longer be covered by insurance as it previously was.

Let’s not forget how crazy expensive adoption is, and how difficult they make the process.

Then the systems that support new mothers who need help, they do not want these either.

Guess what? You cant have it both ways. Are you going to pay for my $25-35/month birth control? I thought not. Are you changing adoption laws? I think not. Are you providing other organizations similar to Planned Parenthood sans the abortion stuff? Nope.

I dont hear anything about sterilizing men or saving precious sperm. Why is all this on the women? All these laws restricting what we do with our bodies, our lives? Are we not allowed to engage in sex anymore because the consequences are too dire?
So best of luck ladies.

Women Under Attack

Women Under Attack

I am beyond fed up with what has been going on in politics and in the media recently.  It seems that women are under attack from everyone lately.  You have the republican presidential candidates speaking about birth control, Rush Limbaugh calling a young woman a “slut” and “prostitute” for advocating for birth control insurance coverage and Susan G. Komen for the Cure pulling funding to Planned Parenthood.  Let’s not forget these morons who were talking about putting an aspirin between your legs.  Why not suggest women jump up and down to shake out the semen?  It is ludicrous.  But I digress…

I know some will disagree with me when I say that men, who can never get pregnant, never have an abortion, never give birth, never have to have periods, have ZERO say in what goes on with a woman’s body or the rights she has to do as she chooses to it.  Unfortunately this country has always been run by men.  So it is up to women to stand up for their rights when hate-mongers such as Rush Limbaugh try to publicly tear down women.  Let me clear up a few things that I feel are common sense.

1. Some women are on birth control for health reasons such as the breaking down of potentially cancerous cysts, less painful periods, reduction in growths in breasts, iron deficiency and more.  Some women are responsibly on birth control because they just do not want to become pregnant.  Plain and simple.  It does not mean they are having a ton of sex, or they are “sluts”, it means they are being smart and responsible with their bodies.

2. Why are there people against birth control when there are a ridiculous amount of children who are unwanted in this world?  I often hear people say “they can have the baby then put it up for adoption”.  Who pays for the doctor’s visits for the mother?  Who pays for the birth?  What if no one adopts that baby?  What if they go from foster home to foster home and are abused or neglected or worse?  What if they go their whole childhood in the system?  Who pays for that?  Is that really better?

3. If Viagra is covered by insurance I do not understand the argument with insurance covering the pill.  And the pill has actual health benefits.

4. Planned Parenthood is a vital organization, especially in poorer areas so women have access to the education and services that they don’t have access to ordinarily or cannot afford.  Planned Parenthood offers cancer screenings, STD testing, contraception and more.

5. I saved the best for last.  Ms. Patricia Heaton…you are a woman AND a mother AND a disgrace to both everywhere.  How can you set the example for your kids that it is okay to verbally attack (bully) someone for trying to speak to Congress on what they believe?  How can you defend what Rush said about her?

I am tired of the nonsense.  I am all about free speech.  What I am not about is using slander, bullying, and insults to get your point across especially when you are privileged enough to have a public platform and use it to do just that.  Those that live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones!  Believe it or not, politicians, Limbaugh, Heaton, O’Reilly, you can get your point across without being hateful.

I am grateful to all the sponsors of Rush’s show that have pulled their ads, however, I think Clear Channel needs to do more.  Honestly, I think Rush should be fired.  Here’s why.

Don Imus, remember him?  On his show, he referred to a black female basketball team as “nappy head hoes” and was fired.  Rick Sanchez was fired for saying “Yeah, very powerless people. [laughs] He’s such a minority. I mean, you know, please. What—are you kidding? I’m telling you that everybody who runs CNN is a lot like Stewart, and a lot of people who run all the other networks are a lot like Stewart. And to imply that somehow they, the people in this country who are Jewish, are an oppressed minority?”

Tony Kornheiser, co-star of the popular ESPN show “Pardon the Interruption,” was suspended last year for making disparaging remarks on his local radio show about “SportsCenter” host Hannah Storm’s wardrobe.  Juan Williams was fired from NPR following comments he made about how muslims made him uncomfortable on a plane.  The lists go on and on.

Women have worked too hard and have come too far to allow this nonsense to continue.  Us women must stick together and stand up for our rights and if men want to support us in this mission, bravo!